i will come to your house and give you my entire course on the history of queer theory in a single sitting
believing that people have True Names - hokey but understandable
believing that each person has a single True Name - unduly limiting but not impossible
believing that a person's One True Name is whatever a government registry has on their records - the perfect blend of authoritarian and bureaucratic
The honest truth is that I was never actually a person to her, just an extension of herself. A vessel for support, comfort, validation. My gender didn't matter to her. Nothing about my identity mattered! as long as I fed into her selfish, one-sided needs, our relationship was gucci. As soon as I started having boundaries that cut into what SHE wanted, we were done.
I hate my ex friend so much. Her binary view of gender is stupid and primitive and most of all IT HURTS ME BECAUSE I WAS SO GENDERQUEER AND THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO HER. how are you gonna uphold the gender binary after a major influence in your life just completely smashed it.
anyway, she can suffer for the rest of her miserable life.
"The Truth Is Paywalled But The Lies Are Free"
I'm so happy for her. I want the generations of queers that follow me to live in blissful ignorance of how many people fought and died before them.
My little sister literally just smokes weed, fucks girls and then uhauls with them. She isn't worried about gay liberation or ANYTHING. I can't imagine how different my life would be if I hadn't had to fight so hard.
some people are too afraid to have a symbol of freedom on they're page...
I stand for radical love, radical acceptance, and radical inclusion!
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