@alice the shared delusion of tech is that it's a meritocracy, along with the usual toxic nerd shit of 'I was picked on in 7th grade, so I'm the good guy, regardless of my shitty behavior!"
Few want to face the fact that much of their supposed genius tends to come from the fact they grew up with enough resources to have computer time available to them at a young age. And part of the conflict is that the younger generation coming in, who had less of a wealth barrier, is more diverse.