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Mx Daria Phoebe @dariaphoebe@anarchism.space

Femandrogyne cyclist, software developer, dreamer, schemer

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**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · Jun 17, 2018, 18:54

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · Jun 17, 2018, 18:54

I feel like I need to toot this

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · Jun 12, 2018, 01:05

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · Jun 12, 2018, 01:05

It’s killing me that I can’t go bike now, but the lack of bike trails in this area that go further than about 15 miles is... just not acceptable.

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · Jun 11, 2018, 00:40

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · Jun 11, 2018, 00:40

It’s not so much that the answers I need have become clear; it’s that the answers have clearly become the opposite of what I need.

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · Jun 10, 2018, 17:43

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · Jun 10, 2018, 17:43

Also, the number of trans and queer folks I've convinced it's safe to be themselves is both awesome and worrying. Cuz what if I misled them? What if they're just gonna get hurt now?

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · Jun 10, 2018, 17:32

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · Jun 10, 2018, 17:32

Suicide being thrust to the fore hasn't made my immediate situation any more tenable, but it sure has helped with processing, and given me opportunity to share what I've learned.

**Mx Daria Phoebe** · Jun 09, 2018, 06:43

Mx Daria Phoebe boosted

**Aerdan** @Aerdan@pleroma.apkfission.net · Jun 09, 2018, 06:43

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · Jun 01, 2018, 22:49

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · Jun 01, 2018, 22:49

I jumped a long time ago. It's just a really long fall.

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 29, 2018, 15:31

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 29, 2018, 15:31

I realize my internal monologue no longer genders me at all and now find myself wondering what this means more broadly. Or *if* it does.

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 28, 2018, 14:31

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 28, 2018, 14:31

I got my first tattoo yesterday, a black heart composed of Amelia’s thumbprint, squarely between my boobs.

People ask when you plan to get a tattoo if you worry you might regret it later. Well, this is one I will never not regret due to its permanence. And I’m not talking about the ink.

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 27, 2018, 23:20

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 27, 2018, 23:20

I had a rough moment this morning, and this poem -- first draft anyway -- was the result. (It's a public post)

https://www.facebook.com/dariaphoebe/posts/10101877528958759

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 27, 2018, 12:57

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 27, 2018, 12:57

I expected my first tattoo to pay tribute to moving to Boston and how I thought it saved me.

Today I’m getting my first tattoo: my late partner’s thumbprint.

Hard truths are hard.

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 26, 2018, 21:55

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 26, 2018, 21:55

Most likely? Well. Maybe not. Two *frequent* options, anyway.

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 26, 2018, 21:54

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 26, 2018, 21:54

Another thing on my mind: feminist men: i always wonder if they're hiding an awful secret, or if they're an egg. those seem to be the two most likely options.

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 26, 2018, 21:25

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 26, 2018, 21:25

Given the tin man from the Wizard of Oz, a non-binary person with no heart is a tinby, right? An Snby as it were? (This came up over cocktails last night while talking about autism and emulating being a human)

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 23, 2018, 09:29

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 23, 2018, 09:29

I could live without the 5am anxiety attacks of “I have 10 days to figure out my life”

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 22, 2018, 14:39

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 22, 2018, 14:39

Recriminations: being femme in a place where femme doesn’t work the same way as you’re used to, and how to signal sapphic tendencies in sapphic spaces

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 20, 2018, 03:05

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 20, 2018, 03:05

Tho the pizza was good

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 20, 2018, 02:46

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 20, 2018, 02:46

Right in the feels

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 14, 2018, 18:59

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 14, 2018, 18:59

The universe is talking to me. Fine. I get it. I’m listening.

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 13, 2018, 16:18

**Mx Daria Phoebe** @dariaphoebe · May 13, 2018, 16:18

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