@ThisQueerBashesBack if you are in Massachusetts, there's a program called Emergency Aid for the Elderly, Disabled and Children that i used while i was waiting (many months) for my SSI to be approved. some states may have similar programs.

SNAP benefits might be helpful for you too. work requirements don't apply to disabled recipients.

@ThisQueerBashesBack I have no information myself, but much sadness about the sorry state that so many countries which should have little to no problems with this. I think that someone should have some information. But my feeling is that it's just terrible to manage this stuff.

@ThisQueerBashesBack have you found this yet? https://www.adrcoforegon.org/consite/index.php

I got it by googling "adult foster care" which is apparently an easy thing to set up in MA but I don't know about other states. good luck!