I once met a person who I wanted to talk with, and they wanted to meet me at a graveyard. They went around, telling me all about the different parts of the graveyard, about all the dead people. They told me about stealing decorations from different grave sites. They were a very lonely person. I asked them why the graveyard, and they told me that dead people don't hurt them.

People trapped in their own pain often fail to see the pain that they inflict on others.

Or they might not care.